Their First Dance

Love Like Steel, Music

This evening I’ll put on a pretty dress and make people feel welcome at a friend’s wedding.

I always thought guest books were silly.

Guess what? She put me in charge of greeting and the guest book.

And she changed my mind.

Their guest book is a Bible.

“Underline your favorite verse. Write a note to the couple in the margin.”

I’ll eat my words about guest books.

(But they still won’t get me to eat the cake…) šŸ˜‰

Then I’ll watch her dance with her best friend under an evening sun.

ain’t no currency to buy your heart…

My favorite verse? You know I don’t pick favorites.

But I’ll leave them with this one. “Light is sown for the righteous, and joy for the upright in heart.” -Psalm 97:11

A Prayer for Belfast

Poetry, Ponderings, Travel

because this is the night the bonfires are lit,
three stories tall.
And sometimes bombs go off.
Pipe bombs, parades, and peace, mostly.
We hope.

The Troubles are over in Northern Ireland, but this week tends to be a bit troublesome. Troubled. The Twelfth.

A holiday for some. On holiday are others. The history runs deep. And the hurt.

I wrote this last summer in the shadow of the wall, where my heart wept:

One wall
Two stories
Two countries
One wall
Two memories
Two passions
Too tall
Two enclaves
Two hard hearts
One wall
Too much pain
Too much to change
How does one navigate a wall?
Two murals
Two memorials
One wall
Too many dead
Too much blood shed
For what?
A wall that holds the peace
but holds them back,
That breeds a lie
and fears attack.
The roads split because to walk from here to there
is to cross a wall that must not be crossed.
Because they live there
and we live here.
That’s just how it is
in the shadow of fear.
And you never talk to those people so near
because they have their banner
and you have yours.
In city center you might meet,
but at home you lock the doors
and mark your street,
and retreat behind the wall
because that’s just how it’s done.
As kids we grew up with our heroes
and our flags
And we threw stones, it was fun.
So now we have a wall.
It’s safer.
That’s just how it’s done.


Shankill Road

Reconnaissance

Love Like Steel

Out scouting a location for Love Like Steel today…

Besides finding a lively new bookstore, I found some books. Shocker, I know. šŸ˜‰

Booked by Richard Kreitner

travel + literature so it made me think of Love Like Steel and an unfinished work on my desk, The Poetā€™s Guide to Belfast

The Black Book of Colors by Menena Cottin

An eye-catching title & cover, a bright warm heart Yes, every single page is black. Words are in white and braille. Illustrations are by touch.

Stop Looking at Your Phone: A Helpful Guide

Much needed humor.

The entire book is like this. Snarky treatment of a scary reality.

If I Was the Sunshine by Julie Fogliano & Loren Long

(Bought it! It was on my list.)

One of the most poetic childrenā€™s books Iā€™ve read; a brilliant use of words.

if you were the winter

and i was the spring

i’d call you whisper

and you’d call me sing

-Julie Fogliano

Happy reading!

Rock, Paper, Scissors

Ponderings

Words can cut you up and bleed you out.

They can break the windows of your heart, your hopes.

Sharp words. Strong words.

But paper can knock a body over, land your heart on its face, brimful.

Soft words, kind words, unexpected. They’re the strongest.

You know, we’d win a lot more if we threw more paper.

Highly Conflicted Characters

Literature, Word-wrangling

Highly conflicted characters keep us reading.

Fiction. Storytelling. Theater. Make-believe.

Maybe it seems like a safe way to come to terms with our highly conflicted selves.

When dishonesty or a shallow eye writes characters that fall flat, we feel bored or betrayed.

Bored because they arenā€™t alive.

Betrayed because they arenā€™t like us.

A characterā€™s struggles must be as much as internal as external. Donā€™t just face the hero with hard things. Face him with the one thing he fears most in order to save someone else. Make her deepest-held fears wrestle with her deepest-held ideals. Hold up the two virtues a character values most and offer an “either or.”

In their weakness, they are strong. The strong know how to be vulnerable.

Why do we know this, deep down?

Minor characters can be flat, and we donā€™t notice. But major characters need inner battles or we disconnect.

Mr. Darcy. Jean Valjean. Margaret Hale.

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And then thereā€™s the kid with no name.

I donā€™t know if Iā€™d call his an inner conflict. But there are things that donā€™t seem to belong together.

Heā€™s one of the most interesting characters Iā€™ve met.

I met him in a book called Milkweed by Jerry Spinelli. I picked up the audiobook for one dollar. The library was getting rid of it. Presumably because itā€™s a childrenā€™s book about a Polish Gypsy boy who wants to be a Nazi. (I assume some parents complained.) And, as it happens, the boyā€™s best friends are Jews. So obviously, thereā€™s going to be some kind of inner struggle, sooner or later. Even if it comes as one decisive blow.

ā€œThis is crazy,ā€ I thought when I read the back cover. It got crazier.

The kid knows nothing. No one taught him to fear. No one taught him to hate. No one taught him who he is. When the book opens, he only knows one thingā€”how to survive. Seriously, he doesnā€™t even know his own name.

We meet a puzzle.

Innocent, naĆÆve, and a lawbreaker, a thief.

Who is he really? What are we to make of him?

He sees the marching and wants to be a Nazi.

Then, ā€œWhatā€™s an angel?ā€ he asks.

Wow.

This book is not for the faint of heart. But I donā€™t think you are, if you read this far.